Our Journey To Callaway
| August 2, 2005 | Our journey begins today with a flight out of St Louis. |
| August 3, 2005 | This day literally vanished somewhere over the Pacific Ocean. Brian doesn't think we should be charged for leave for this day since it didn't happen for us. We left St Louis on August 2 and actually got on a flight leaving 1 hour earlier than planned. That helped a lot as we needed that time in Minneapolis/St Paul. We flew to Toyko and then to Beijing. We arrived about 9 PM, Beijing time (8 AM St Louis time) very weary and wanting nothing more than a shower and sleep. We're getting closer to our daughter! |
| August 4, 2005 | After many technical difficulties,
we're up and running and finally able to post. Sleep was a wonderful
thing last night but Karen was up and ready to get started at 4 AM.
We are at the Beijing Hotel. It seems to be right in the middle of
chaos. It is truly amazing to watch the number of people, cars and
bicycles all compete for the same space. We are here with 3 other
families and will be joined by more by Friday. All of us are anxious
to get
our daughters. |
| August 5, 2005 | Today puts us one day closer to our
daughter. Only 2 days left until we get to hold her in our arms. Every
face we see reminds us of why we are here. |
| August 6, 2005 | Today began for us at 3 AM. Not by
choice but we woke up and our first thought was "tomorrow we will have
Callaway". No sleeping after that thought! Our group went to the Great Wall of China this morning. It is more amazing than we could have imagined. The steps are very uneven, which makes it more difficult to climb. Each step is a different height so it's very challenging. It's like climbing straight up to the sky. I'm so thankful we had the opportunity to see and climb this. On our way to the wall, we stopped at a Jade factory. That was interesting so see how it's made, how the stone is selected, graded, etc. We bought several things in there. I won't tell you everything but we did get a pendant for Callaway to give her when she is much older. It has the Chinese symbol for happiness. Later in the day we found out that her middle name means "happiness". How cool is that? We also went to a Cloisonne factory and a pearl factory. We were able to get a beautiful pearl earring and necklace set that Callaway will probably get on her wedding day. Shhh, don't tell her. ;-) Now, if I will only be able to remember where I put them... Our final sightseeing stop was at the Summer Palace. We pretty much ran through that due to time. I boat ride back to our van completed our day nicely. Did I mention that tomorrow we get Callaway? The concept is truly overwhelming. This time tommorow our lives will be forever changed. So will her life. God is so good! Oh, here come the tears again. I'll try to get a couple of pictures posted before I go to bed. Brian is already asleep. He was feeling much better today and enjoyed all the activities but is tired. We appreciate everyone's prayers so much. Prayer requests: That we get some sleep tonight. That all goes as planned tomorrow and that 24 hours from now I post that I'm holding Callaway in one arm and typing with the other. One last thought because I just read an email from my sister, Pam. She mentioned that she hoped we got some sleep tonight but know it will be difficult with the anticipation. I hope she doesn't mind me quoting her but she went on to say, "Just a few more hours until the homecoming. Do you ever liken it to the homecoming we will have in Heaven someday? Can't imagine the excitement Jesus feels each time someone comes home :-)" Thanks Pam. |
| August 7, 2005 | "My ears had heard of you, but now my eyes
have seen you." Job 42:5
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| August 8, 2005 | Yesterday began in Beijing
with a lot of anxious soon-to-be parents. Four of the families,
us included, took a 2 hour flight to Jiangxi Province, city of
Nanchang. We walked in our hotel rooms and there was a little crib
all waiting for her. Where, oh where, do all these tears come from?
We were told we had an hour before the babies would arrive and
then we were to meet in a room downstairs. We scrambled to get
all the baby stuff organized...where to put things, what to take
with us. All the time with thoughts running through our head wondering
what she will be like, will she like us, etc. The four families
met as directed. Certainly no one was going to be late for this
meeting. The tension was palpable. We were told the babies would
arrive at 4:30 PM but 4:30 came and went without any word. At 5
PM, we were told they were just a few minutes away. That gave one
of the guys time to run back to their room to get some tissues
because I had started crying again. The first sign we had of their
arrival was a cry. I think all of us jumped at hearing that beautiful
sound. We probably all got teary. Then they were here. Each baby
carried into the room by a different orphanage worker. You could
hear mumblings of all of us trying to figure out which one was
ours. I was pretty sure I recognized Callaway's cheeks. Sure enough,
it was her. The orphanage director handed her to me and all I remember
is crying, thanking God for this beautiful daughter and telling
Callaway that I was her mama. Brian was to take the pictures of
this but was shaking so badly that none of them turned out. I believe
some of the other families got pictures and will share them when
we get home. I finally let her daddy hold her. She was immediately
amused by her daddy. Daddy can make funny sounds from his mouth
just like her. We had a few minutes to ask the orphanage director
some questions like what their schedule was and what they have
been eating and then they left. Now for today...Happy Birthday
Callaway! You are 1 year old today! Prayer requests: Thank God for this gift he has given us. She is truly an answer to prayer. |
| August 9, 2005 | Last evening was special celebrating
Callaway's birthday with our new friends. While we were in the middle
of our meal, the lights were dimmed, the pianist started playing "Happy
Birthday" and the staff brought out a cake with one lit candle. It
wasn't the same as being at home but special. Special memories for
mommy and daddy anyway. We wanted to be able to celebrate her 1st birthday
with her. If you see the pictures I posted, it's obvious that being
the belle of the ball was just a little too tiring for her. She passed
out as soon as the cake was cut. She woke up in the bath though and had another splashing contest with herself. Even as we're pulling her out of the small tub, she has to get one last kick in. Somehow I doubt she was rocked to sleep with lullabies when living in the orphanage but she is now. Did I tell you that she has daddy wrapped around her little finger? Today we went shopping a while. She attracts so much attention. Apparently, the Chinese people aren't used to seeing a big baby. She weighs 20 lbs but doesn't seem as long as the other babies. She's able to wear most of the 12-month clothes as long as they aren't too narrow. We went to a beautiful park around a lake. We would have loved to stay there longer but it was so hot and wasn't good for the babies to be out too long. The lake was very nice. We were told there are a lot of lakes in this province, including the largest fresh water lake in China. It was killing Brian not having a fishing pole with him today. We ate lunch outside of the hotel. The food was excellent. This region is known for it's spicy foods. Our guide also told us the girls here are known as spice girls. It's naptime for Callaway and her daddy. Mommy is finally getting a few minutes to spend on this website. We still can't bring our website up here but now know why. We have posted a lot of scripture on this site and it is being censured. We were able to bring it up one time after we arrived in China but have not been able to since then. I know I have been outspoken on this website and if I have offended anyone, I apologize. We are passionate about our love for Christ. |
| August 10, 2005 | Please take a minute to look back
at new pictures from "gotcha day", 8/7/05. We didn't get
the photos ourselves as we had hoped but one of our new friends, David,
who is also a new daddy, got some absolutely wonderful photos that
he shared
with us. These photos are like gold to us and we hope you enjoy them. It's been another day to learn about the city of Nanchang and Callaway's heritage. We've been to some porcelain shops today and picked up a couple of things for Callaway and one for us. We have no idea how we will get these fragile pieces to Guangzhou, let alone home. We went to a place called The Tengwang Pavilion. It was originally built in 653 A.D. and has been rebuilt as many as 28 times. We climbed all 9 stories of it. There is such stark contrast here. We are in a very nice hotel but look out our window and see an apartment building that is way below poverty level. You can see old China structures right next to modern buildings. There is so much to look at. Brian said that looking out our window reminds him of a Richard Scary book. Miss Callaway is guaranteed to fall asleep on the bus rides but is fighting like the dickens at naptime today. I'm sure all this activity is quite a change of pace for her. She is sneezing some so she may be coming down with a cold. She also has a bump on top of her head that is bothering her. She had it when we got her and the pediatrician in our travel group thinks it may be a boil caused by the heat. We're putting Neosporin on it and it's not as red looking today but still bothering her. Prayer requests: That Callaway stays healthy. That Grandpa George's surgery goes well so he can soon play with Callaway. We'll keep you in our prayers, Gpa George! |
| August 11, 2005 | There aren't any words to explain
the emotions we felt today going to the orphanage where Callaway
spent her first year. I'm posting a few pictures but only a very select
few. We
will show the entire album to immediate family only. |
| August 12, 2005 | Please forgive us for the late entry
for this day. It's actually 8/13 as I'm entering this. Friday was a
busy day for us. |
| August 13, 2005 | We're in Guangzhou now and
this is the final stop of our trip. This hotel is incredible. You
hear about all the adoptive families that
come through here but you really can't understand until you go to the
breakfast
buffet and see all the families here with new kids. It is amazing.
The hotel sits on Shamian Island and the entire island seems to cater
to
adoptive families. Our room looks out over the Pearl River and we're
loving that. There are many shops here and I quickly realized we
don't have enough time here to cover all of them! However, we're
giving
it the ol' college try. I'm trying my best to teach our daughter how
to shop!
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| August 14, 2005 | This was a day without any paperwork or
appointments...unheard of lately. It was a nice change. We went on
one tour and saw the Chen Ancestral Hall, which was built 1888-1894.
The artistry is truly amazing. Someday maybe Callaway will stay awake
to see it. Prayer requests: Callaway's infected mosquito bite on her head continues to improve and she fights off this cold she's trying her best to catch. |
| August 15, 2005 | Not much happening today. Mommy is fighting
off travelitis so we all took a long morning nap. Afternoon was spent
doing a bit of shopping then mommy took Callaway for her first swim.
She loved it! She really enjoys the water and doesn't seem to have
any fear of it. Our challenge when giving her a bath is keeping her
from dunking herself. We didn't stay in the pool long because the sun
wasn't out and we didn't want her to get chilled. Prayer request: That Callaway's infected bug bite continues to get better. That mommy gets over her "travelitis". Follow-up from prayer request for Grandpa George: Surgery went well and he is recuperating now. We appreciate continued prayers for his health and recovery. |
| August 16, 2005 | This will be short and sweet as it has been
a long day of doing last minute stuff, we're trying to pack and get
settled for a short night. We must get up at 4 AM to get out of here
and to the airport for an early flight. |
| August 17, 2005 | "Behold, children are a gift of
the Lord; How blessed is the man whose quiver is full of them." Psalms
127:3,5 About 4 years ago, I (Karen) worked briefly with a lady named Callaway. I loved the name and went home and told Brian about the name and this lady. He loved it to. We decided that if we ever had a daughter, her name would be Callaway. About 3 years ago, we started talking seriously about adopting. I was in church one Sunday and, while waiting for the service to begin, I was reading the bulletin. There was a note in the bulletin saying something like "...if you're interested in learning more about adoption...come to this introductory seminar". It might as well have said, "Karen, this is what you've been praying about...come to this seminar". The seminar was given by a wonderful couple in our church, Guy and Kathy. I saved that bulletin for Callaway's life book. We sat Brian Jr down to tell him what we had decided to do. Before we could even get to the punchline, he jumped up and said, "Wait a minute! Let me guess. We're going to adopt aren't we?" We had not discussed this around him but obviously God had planted a seed in his heart as well. From that day on, we have prayed for Callaway as a family. No, it doesn't take 3 years to get through this process, but it did us. As I look across this hotel room at this precious little girl sleeping, I know, without a doubt, it was because we were meant to get this little girl. This has been an incredible trip and an incredible experience. Our hearts have forever been changed. We will continue to post some pictures and updates for a few months as time permits. We appreciate everyone following along with us and your prayer support. We've talked so much about Callaway but let me tell you a little about her big brother, Brian Jr. He is big Brian's son from his first marriage, is 17 years old, a senior in high school, is a Christian, loves baseball and golf, is a straight A student and all-around great young man. No, I'm not biased at all. We are so proud of him. He has wanted a little sister so badly and is really looking forward to this new member of our family. So this part of the journey is coming to a close. But more accurately, the journey is just beginning. We can't wait to get her home and introduce her to the rest of her "forever" family. Brian Jr, you will be this first one to get to hold her, your little sister. We'll see you at the airport. We love you! |
| August 23, 2005 | Okay, I'll be honest. I had
to put the cursur over the time at the bottom of the computer to
see what the date was. I wouldn't have even known
what day of the week it was. Let me back up... "The LORD has done great things for us, and we are filled with joy." Psalm 126:3 |
| Sept. 5, 2005 | I know, I know. It's about time I posted something. It's not like we've
been sitting around here twiddling our thumbs though. Well, maybe we've
been twiddling Callaway's thumbs. She really is fun to play with. She is adjusting well now but continues to fight sleep. It may just be that way for a while. We can live with that. It is amusing to watch her fight though. She's so predictable now. If you've ever played the game of raising your arm thinking that the longer you keep your arm up, the longer you will stay awake, Callaway wins. She has made 2 trips to mommy's workplace and at least 4 to daddy's now. (Daddy's is closer). She loves to get out and meet people. Daddy also gets to stop by during the day and check on us. Callaway's face totally lights up when he walks in the door...just wrapping daddy a little bit tighter around her finger each time. This past Friday daddy was off work so we went to the zoo. Sounds like fun, doesn't it? If anyone has ever tried to point out a hippo in the water or a rhino who is a good 50 yards away to a 1-year old, you know you're better off just enjoying the flowers, walk and being outdoors. We left the zoo and headed to Illinois to pick up Brian Jr. Now that made her smile! She adores Brian Jr. Yesterday we went to Sunday School and Church for the first time since we got home so it was Callaway's first time in Church. She had a great time and the volunteers working in that area said she did beautifully. I think she enjoyed being around little ones again. Our adult SS class enjoyed meeting her and, once again, Callaway turned on the charm. She seems so close to crawling. At least once a day I grab the camcorder quickly thinking that "this is it". It hasn't been. Just testing mommy's reflexes with the camera. We will post more as soon as possible! |
| Sept. 7, 2005 | Wow! Happy 1 month Forever Family Day anniversary to us! It's hard
to believe it's been 1 month since this precious child was placed in
my arms. The month has gone way too fast but I've absolutely loved every
minute of it. So many people have asked how I like being a mommy. No
need to ask. It's so wonderful that I can't even begin to describe. We
thank God every day for the gift He has given us. We are honored that
He has chosen us to care for this sweet girl. We feel like He has given
us one of His finest treasures. Sure, she has her moments where she is not so sweet, but she is still perfect in our eyes. No matter what the situation, I just keep telling myself "For this child I prayed". I have honestly loved every minute of being with her. I (Karen) return to work this next Monday. Yes, kicking and screaming. Callaway will be attending daycare. I know she will do fine. Mommy will not. Please keep us all in our prayers as our lives transition one more time. It was tough to make a decision on daycare but we finally made one and can only hope that we have made the right one. Those who have been through this know the struggle involved. We plan to continue posting updates although it's obvious they won't be frequent like when we were in China. Ah, the good ol' days! We have so much appreciated the feedback we have received on this site. It's been so fun and the ride is just beginning! |
| Sept. 13, 2005 | Callaway here…mommy is busy so I’m going to say a few words. I don’t feel very good. They tell me I have chicken pox and mommy calls me her little pox baby. I don’t understand all of that but all I know is that my nose is running and I can’t breathe very well. Oh, oh, here comes mommy again with that blue thing she sticks up my nose. Okay, that helped. I’m not going to tell her that though. I was supposed to start going to daycare yesterday but when I got up, mommy said I wasn’t going to school this week. This is all very confusing to me but it is okay because I get to spend more time with mommy and daddy. Daddy goes to work in the morning and comes home in the afternoon and then mommy goes to work. Mommy started back to work yesterday and she sure looked tired last night. Oh, oh, here comes that blue thing again. I wonder where all this stuff comes from that comes out my nose. I wonder if it will ever stop. I wonder why mommy always seems to have that blue thing with her. Oooh, daddy’s home! He is my favorite toy. We play silly games and daddy likes to make funny sounds. I can say “meow”. Daddy laughs when I say it. We sing and dance together too. That’s a lot of fun. I want to sing too but I don’t know the words yet. Oh, oh, I just saw mommy give daddy that blue thing that she keeps putting up my nose. I’ve got to go. It's time to cry and get some attention. |